D/s Personal Training

2009-03-13T14:21:00.000-07:00

I'm baaaaaack...

Back from my leave of absence! It took me longer than I thought it might, but I'm happy to say that I'm seeing clients again. My hours have changed - I'm now working mostly Monday, Wednesday and Friday evenings. So if you've been wanting to see me, now's your chance...

2007-12-26T09:43:00.000-08:00

Hope your holidays were as relaxing as mine! I love this time of year, and we even got snow yesterday in Seattle. A white Christmas, despite all odds...

This upcoming New Year brings an announcement from me: I am taking an extended leave of absence from pro-domming. Why? Well, several reasons, two of them being that the clientele has never been reliable. I haven't put the resources and energy necessary into creating and maintaining a web presence for Miss Candy - I've had too many other things on my plate, and these things don't tend to work unless you can focus on them. Also, my personal training business is taking off, and I need to focus on that or else it'll suffer the same fate as this venture. I've never been one to be satisfied doing just one thing, but in this case, doing less than five is what's needed to keep myself sane, energized, and happy.

So keep your eye out - I may be back someday! Till then, a merry Xmas to all, and to all a good night...

2007-12-03T15:09:00.000-08:00

Gotta love rain! Except I don't, actually...was a big fan of the snow this weekend, but not of the pouring that's come on its heels. Yuck! Luckily, I have a few things going on this week that should help improve my mood...a long-awaited photoshoot this evening, seeing some nice boys this week, and preparing to visit family in Chicago this weekend. Hopefully more snow there, and less rain!

I also wanted to pass on that I'm currently updating my Amazon.com wishlist...if you feel the desire to give me a gift this holiday season, that's really your best bet. I'll try to surf and click a little more, but I just don't spend any time on the computer these days!

Stay dry...at least, between your car and my studio...:)

2007-11-11T18:33:00.001-08:00

What's more fun than throwing a kinky party? Throwing a kinky party AND doing a two-day martial arts seminar! It was a nice balance of focused learning and total relaxation and fun with my friends...I'm very tired tonight, but feeling great. I had an inspired 80's outfit last night as well, with my favorite Linea Paolo shoes, my Bon Jovi "Slippery When Wet" tank top, my mid-length leather skirt, and these stockings (with a black ribbon), which a very nice boy got for me in San Francisco (thanks, G!). Now it's time for some pancakes (since I'm in desperate need of calories after this crazy weekend) and some chilling. If you want to see me sometime this month, best get your requests in...my time is filling up very fast.

2007-10-31T10:41:00.000-07:00

Hello all! I'm back from visint my family in Florida, and now it's Halloween! I think I'm going to go dressed as a fiery, fierce dominant with an eye to make boys uncomfortably aroused...

Good thing I've got the outfit already! :)

Have a happy one, and I'll post soon about my exploits...I'm too busy exploiting to do so now...

2007-10-15T12:04:00.000-07:00

Had an absolutely incredible weekend, filled with lovely people at the Wicked Womyn conference in Seattle. Lots of play, lots of sex, tons of energy, and one tired and stressed-out mistress. I'm afraid I've overbooked myself today - I have the makings of a migraine on my hands, and have to cancel several sessions this afternoon. I'm sad about it, but taking care of my body comes first!

A little more work, then I'm crawling under the covers (alone this time)...more on the weekend soon!

2007-10-07T19:14:00.000-07:00

So apparently I'm now a porn star. Hah! A couple of weeks ago my friends at Two Big Meanies decided to enter the first shoot I did with them into HUMP!, the Stranger's amateur porn festival. I didn't attend a screening because, contrary to popular belief, I am a little shy when it comes to public nakedness, and I didn't want people looking from the screen, to me, to the screen...

Anyway, the audience must've really liked it, because we won "Best Hardcore" porn, with a nice cash prize, a trophy, and goodies from Babeland. Cool! The funniest thing is that there was no sex in the video. Sorta wish I'd been there to receive it all, but then I'd have had to be watching, and I wasn't going to do that.

Folsom was fabulous...more on that later. But my swell friend G did give me some very nice gifts, including a great teal dress with corset-type satin ribbons (can't find a pic) and this dress from Wolford's. Thanks, G! :) Think I'll wear the black one tonight for the Bondage Party at The Wet Spot!

2007-09-28T12:02:00.000-07:00

Almost ready to head out to Folsom! Hopefully the pesky sore throat I've picked up won't cramp my style...

Anyone else going? It's my first time, and only my second in San Fran, so pass along any ideas on what I should do (besides the obvious, of course)...

2007-09-19T13:31:00.001-07:00

I've been pretty out of it the past week...I took a little mini-vacation and then had my mother staying with me. I think I never feel less kinky than when she's around, but I'm back to normal now...just picked up another batch of zipties to wrap around people's toes...

I'm doing another fundraiser this weekend - come if you can! It's a BBQ at The Cuff this Sunday from 4pm-8pm. There will be burgers, boys, flogging, trampling, stripping, raffles, and of course, me. Come one come all!

2007-08-29T15:35:00.001-07:00

A few pics for you today...one work-safe, the other probably not. Here are my new shoes...they're so comfortable, and I love the cutouts on the heel.

Sigh. I love Cole Haan! Especially the comfot...I can wear these all day, and that's saying something for me, since I usually wear sneakers! :)

This one showcases some very nice Myla lingerie, given to me by an extrordinarily sweet man (thanks, G)! It's interesting to see myself in something so...girly.

I'm going to be out of town a lot this month, so if you'd like to get in to see me, best try to get on my calendar now!

2007-08-28T11:17:00.000-07:00

I'm buying a pair of shoes today that I'm very excited about...very sexy, not too high, and even comfortable to wear. The pair of shoes I won't be buying, however, is the one I wanted to share with you...

My salesman was a bit of a foot fetishist...you can tell in the way they bring you shoes, the way they talk about them, the way they watch you walk in them. He brought me a pair of Prada sheos that I would never wear, but because I knew he wanted so badly to see me in them, I put them on. I understand foot fetish to a point, but one thing I don't get and never will is the pointy toe thing. I HATE shoes with pointy toes. I think they look ridiculous, especially on someone like me, who has long, narrow feet already. I'm also not a fan of having a sandal shoe with my heel enveloped, because it fits me badly and looks bulbous and clonky to me. But apparently I'm alone in my dislike of these things, because anytime I've indulged someone by wearing shoes of this description, they've invariably had an orgasm (at least, a mental one). These Prada shoes...I tried to find a pic online, but couldn't. They were black with very pointed toes and a four-inch stiletto, with one of those bulky heels. He just about fainted as I pirouetted around in them. "Toe cleavage" he sighed, as I complained that my toes weren't covered by the foreshortened toe.

Well, to each their own! I'll get my shoes today, but we exchanged cards...maybe we'll bump into each other again, if not at Nordstroms, then maybe in the dungeon!

2007-08-16T11:28:00.000-07:00

Mmmmm, sexy poster...the small text is tough to read online, but roughly translated means that there's a 30-minute boot camp class, a pushup contest, great raffle prizes, free food and drinks, and all queer and queer-friendly people are welcome. I hope people come out to this - it should be a blast, and it's for a really great cause. If you've ever wanted to be ordered around by me but can't afford my session price, this is your chance! :)

2007-08-15T13:42:00.001-07:00

I just came a cross this pic of me from the Rat City Rollergirls Big Gay Bout...not bad! Their final game is this weekend.

I'm looking forward to some stockings coming in the mail soon...thanks, T! I'm woefully short on stockings and garters, which I've been informed is a capital crime. Live and learn! And have nice men buy them for you...

2007-08-09T11:20:00.000-07:00

Monday is the day to see me, boys! I've got the studio all to myself, and as of yet I am free between 10 and 3...a most unusual happening. Contact me if you'd like to get in!

I'm going to be taking some very sexy pictures soon...keep up with this blog if you want to see 'em!

2007-08-01T18:04:00.000-07:00

Some of you may not know that I'm a parent. I have a fabulous four-year-old son who rocks my world on a daily basis, and is the funniest human I've ever met (without even trying). Case in point? My experience yesterday afternoon...

A sweetheart client brought me a little treat from the Exotic Bakery...one penis cookie and one vagina cookie. It was a nice gesture, and we had a good time. I had to pick up my son early and i forgot that a small party was planned for a teacher who was leaving, and that my son was going to miss it by leaving when we did. He was a little bummed on the way out to the car, so I told him I had a treat for him. I chose the vagina cookie because it was the least obviously pornographic, and we went on our way. Our conversation in the car went like this:

Me: Is that a good cookie?
Son: Yeah! It has lots of icing on it.
Me: Oh good, I'm glad you like it.
*pause*
Son: Mommy, what's this icing on the top?
Me: Hmmm?
Son: What's it the shape of?
Me: I don't know. What does it look like to you?
*pause*
Son: A duck!
Me: Wow, cool, a duck! That's pretty neat.
Son: Yeah, it's a duck inside a slipper!
Me: Awesome.

So there you have it. the duck/slipper/vagina cookie made everything okay. Thanks, B...and thanks for the hard work, too...

2007-07-22T20:41:00.000-07:00

Just had my housewarming party yesterday, and currently enjoying some much needed down time. Flew through Harry Potter in about seven hours...it's really good, my favorite of them all. I'm looking forward to another week of torturing people for my pleasure, whether in the gym or in the dungeon, and need my beauty sleep. Anyone interested in giving me a massage this month might find themselves a coveted session spot...I'm partial to those boys these days, since I'm working out so hard. Of course, anyone who would find rubbing my naked body distasteful need not apply...

2007-07-05T23:28:00.000-07:00

I'll be judging the Leather Sir/Boy contest at The Cuff this weekend, so if you'd like to come out and support the community, please do! And I'm not quitting the prodomme business...I have too much fun with my boys, even if they are a little flighty sometimes.

I told you I'm fickle.

But did I tell you my idea for HUMP, the amatuer porn contest held by The Stranger, our weekly alternative paper? Entries can be at most 8 minutes, and I think the scenario I've come up could fit neatly into that, urm, hole. Let's just say it involves a cage, some duct tape, my knife, some gloves and lube, and a very cute girl.

2007-07-02T19:25:00.000-07:00

I've been plotting my world domination today. It's proceeded exactly as planned, although I wish more of it could be done by stripping boys of their dignity and doing terrible things to them. Instead, I was in front of a computer most of the day, typing and revising. As many of you know, my (mostly) full-time job is as a personal trainer/health and fitness consultant. This career has recaptured my attention, and thus I've been spending less of my work hours beating people up (at least, with whips and chains). I'm thinking I might be headed out of this business, although I'd like to have a continued internet presence, especially in the form of more videos. The truth is that most of the boys out there are too fickle...as soon as I get used to having you around, you disappear. And I must say...I'm not used to not getting what I want.

But I'm a fickle person (meaning that I believe what I believe passionately until I change my mind) and, knowing that, I'm not making any decisions today. Maybe tomorrow. But if you'd like to try to change my mind, I'm willing to hear your pleas...

2007-06-28T07:56:00.001-07:00

Hi! More craziness ensues...my main phone died last night, so I have to go shopping for a new one today. It's fine, since I've been meaning to do that for a while now, but it did make things a little complicated last night (because it died while I was talking to a friend who was having a hard time). This is my chance to get a nifty phone, and while I'm not ready to jump to the Iphone quite yet, I'm not too far off. We'll see what I end up with...

There's a lot of photos of me from Pride floating around, but I particularly like this one of me from the Rollergirls show.

2007-06-22T20:01:00.001-07:00

Things have been insane...catching up on life and preparing for a packed Pride Weekend in Seattle. If you're going to be in town and attending the festivities, you could catch me as the Scoremistress for the Rat City Rollergirls "Big Gay Bout." I'll be at the Cuff and the Wild Rose on Saturday night, and will be with the Leather/Fetish contingent in the downtown Pride parade on Sunday.

Here's a little bit more about DESIRE...

One of the coolest experiences this weekend was the class and demos on water bondage and play. This woman is one of the only ones who does this type of play because of the risks (it's literally life-threatening). She's a scuba instructor, an EMP, and loves water, so she was drawn to this type of play. She talked a lot about the safety features she has in place...5 or 6 backup people as well as people in the water monitoring what's going on. The conference was more like a retreat, with a pool in the center and walls all around (let's just say I was naked most of the weekend). After watching some DVD footage of a scene she did, we went outside and got geared up.

The demo was really cool...it was the first time I'd been underwater with a mask since my scuba cert, and I found it difficult to remember I wasn't wearing a regulator and shouldn't attempt to breathe underwater. :) The bottom (who was in scuba gear) ended up spread-eagled underwater, with her feet tied to two cinderblocks at the bottom and her hands lied with two ropes held by people on the surface. Did you know that you can scream as loud as you want underwater and no one will hear you on the surface? It was trippy...I took short trips down there with my mask, watched and listened, then came up for air before going back down. On the surface you could barely tell that anything was happening, except for shadowy figures and bubbles rising to the surface. Underneath it was a whole other story...she did some knifeplay, attached some zippers to the girl's inner thighs (hence the screams) and did a cool trick with nipple clamps - she attached them to empty water bottles so that when they were let go, they floated toward the surface and pulled on her nipples. At one point the top took her reg out and breathed more air into the bottles, making them float upward more forcefully. It was really cool, seeing what worked and what didn't underwater, and just appreciating how neat it would be to have that experience.

I tried to scene with her, but she was super busy with prearrangements...not to mention that set-up of a single scene took a couple hours. Ah, well...maybe next time! But it really was something else.

2007-06-19T12:20:00.000-07:00

I'm back from Palm Springs...what an amazing experience! I had an incredible time. I hope to have more time to blog about it in the next few days, but today I'm racing around and only have time to check in. But the short version?

Tons of sexy, twisted women in an idyllic setting doing terrible things to each other when they're not lounging around in the pool. That basically covers it, althougn I promise to get into more detail (and amybe even include a few pictures) soon!

2007-06-15T12:34:00.000-07:00

And I'm off to Desire! It'll be very...well, not relaxing, but certainly fun! And I'm sure I'll lie by the pool at least for a little while...when I'm not busy scamming on girls...

BYE!

2007-06-11T21:47:00.000-07:00

It takes a long time to get cable hooked up in this town. Gracious! So much going on and I couldn't tell you all about it! :)

The last piece of furniture is finally in our new place. The most exciting addition by far to our lives is the steel bondage bed made by my friend Jerry...pics to come soon! It's fantastic, very industrial, with holes cut throughout for caribiners. Also, it's a Murphy bed, so the mattress can flip up, exposing the "boxspring" underneath (all shiny steel crosshatch with endless tie-points).

Yes, I'm going to have fun with that. Already have had some fun with that, actually...

I'm off to Desire (the leatherwoman's conference in CA) with my sweetie Rossi on Friday...life's getting back to normal, so if you'd like to see me, try for next week!

2007-05-26T17:42:00.001-07:00

Ahhhhh...feeling much better now! Had a lovely afternoon (and evening) last night courtesy of one of my favorite clients, M. He set us up for our playdate in a swanky room at the Westin - one of their new "Westin Workout" rooms, to be exact. A treadmill, medicine ball, weights, bands, and a stability ball. Oh, and a king-size bed with a huge tub. That's my kind of room! I was especially excited because I was able to spend the night there with my partner, who was just as, uh, appreciative of the setup as I was. It was nice to spend a night in a place where I'm not surrounded by boxes. Wish I'd thought to take a picture of some of the things we got up to in there...

The countdown to my condo closing has started...hopefully, I'll be signing on Tuesday and closing on Thursday. I'm so excited! I've started a new wish list (aptly titled "New Wish List") on Amazon, if you'd like to help me out in furnishing the place. I'll be sure to post lots of pictures when we get everything settled! By the by, thanks to B for the Ipod speakers...they came in handy in our room last night, and will be great in my new home!

Last but not least, I'm going to begin doing regular pro-domme sessions in June...the people have spoken, as has my own inner voice, and I'm excited to broaden my work range. Thanks to Mistress Matisse for encouraging me, and all the people who wrote in response to my last post! So if you'd like to see me but you're not too into working out as a part of the session, let's talk...

2007-05-22T15:43:00.000-07:00

Hah - Mistress Matisse just wrote a hilarious account of an encounter we had Sunday evening. Ah well...I guess I'm just not fit for distinguished company! ;)

My condo is closing in a week! I'm updating my wish list on Amazon to reflect things I'd like for my new place, as well as my usual array of desires...if you're in a generous mood, please check it out! This next month will be impressively busy, with the Desire conference mid-June, Seattle Pride as Ms. Leather, and beaucoup other excitement. I'm hoping to do some pictures this weekend with a friend...look for those to be posted within the next couple weeks. And also, an entry for HUMP (Seattle's amateur porn festival) rich with a girl in a cage, bondage, duct tape, and a lotta sex. Mmmmm...looking forward to filming that one!

2007-05-21T17:49:00.000-07:00

So as I was chatting with my friends Mistress Matisse and Jae last night, I found myself considering (for the first time) doing "straight" domination instead of limiting myself only to a mix of personal training and topping. Hmmm...it certainly would be fun, but I'm not sure if I have the time. I'll tell you what, though...if I get enough positive feedback to this post (either in comment form, which I moderate, or by email) then I'll think about it further.

So what do you think, fellas? Would you like to see me without a workout involved?

2007-05-14T08:15:00.000-07:00

I just got a copy of the photos of the leather competition from my dear friend Malixe...all candid shots, nothing posed. Just the way I like it! He got a few great ones of my "fantasy." The Ms. contestants (I was the only one this year) have to do a fantasy...no longer than four minutes, no nudity, but other than that, no restrictions. It took me awhile to narrow it down. A lot of things turn me on, but I don't fantasize very much...I tend to just go out and do the things that feel good to me. But if I had a fantasy? Hmmm...

I settled on kickboxing. It's an extension of what I do with many clients and play partners - testing my strength against another, feeling the power exchange, enjoying how my body feels in connection with someone else's. So I turned it into a scene, and used my favorite play partner of all...my life partner. The funny thing? He usually is the one topping me! :)

Here's another pic from the event. Now, back to packing!

This is called a scorpion kick...a hardly-used mixed-martial-arts move, but very dramatic!

2007-05-03T10:57:00.000-07:00

My video is up! It's in four pieces, and you can see it on this website. I'll have links from my site soon, but I wanted to get the word out. If you're interested in seeing what a session with me is like, this is a very good way to do just that. Use the "Search by Studio" feature and look for my name!

In other news, we are going to be moving into our new condo at the end of the month! Craziness...I'm not looking forward to packing! At least the bondage party at the Wet Spot is this weekend...

2007-04-30T23:39:00.000-07:00

Gracious, what a weekend...just had our offer on a condo accepted, so we're going to be homeowners! I feel very responsible...our place is going to be a wonderful place to play, and we're putting hard points in everywhere. Heh heh heh...

The practical result of this is that if you thought I was busy before, you ain't seen nothin' yet. However, I am in need of some monies (it being right after taxes and all) so please don't hesitate to trouble me for my time...I'll see what I can do! Also, I'm uploading my videos as we speak, and they should be up and available tomorrow. Finally! Setting things up is the hard part...I'm sure I'll be adding more soon, having gotten the learning curve out of the way!

The Cuff was fun, if exhausting...thanks to those who came out!

2007-04-28T10:29:00.000-07:00

Come out to The Cuff tonight...I (in my Ms. Leather regalia) am doing a coat check with Mr. Leather! Proceeds go to charity...and I'm going to be looking very cute...

2007-04-23T10:32:00.000-07:00

Had a lovely weekend...did some manual labor helping friends get their house ready for a baby! Very unglamorous, pulling up carpet and scrubbing floors, but hey, I can make that look good. :)

Attended a very nice party on Saturday night...my friend Mistress Matisse blogged about it, including a sute picture and some video of a short trampling scene I did with my friend Jae. Check it out!

Also, the video I made is now in my hot little hands...now I just have to figure out what to do with it! More soon...

2007-04-13T15:23:00.000-07:00

Ahhhhhh, Friday. Thought today was going to be way too busy, but it ended up just fine. Got to eat a lovely snack and read a book this morning, served by a sweet boy who trotted around my place in lovely CBT and gag and cleaned my bathroom. Not too shabby, I'd say...beats doing housework myself by a mile! :) Thanks, P...

Also, I want to plug the Art-a-thon that's happening at the new Little Red Studio this weekend...the space is really great, and all proceeds go toward making it even cooler. Check it out!

2007-04-12T10:09:00.000-07:00

Hello all! Gracious, things just never seem to slow down around here! But if you've been wanting to see me and haven't been able to get in, I have some time next week - Thursday midday and Friday afternoon. Strike while the iron is hot!

I'm covered in bruises from kickboxing and most of the people I love are also extremely busy, but I'm feeling a huge wave of contentment and happiness with my lot in life. Even though I had to file taxes yesterday...

2007-04-08T20:18:00.000-07:00

Hello all! Been recovering from Vegas...actually, I haven't been, having stayed up late playing the last two nights. But anyway, am getting around to answering emails and getting caught up with biz. So what's the news?

I'm now accepting new clients again. Sorry for the wait, but I really had too much on my hands in all aspects of life for a while. Not that I'm any less busy now, but I've decided to start scheduling clients in advance (like, more than a week in advance). So if you contact me, expect to have to wait a couple weeks (unless I have a cancellation) but I'll still get you on the books and you'll have something to look forward to!

I was the Score Mistress at the last Rat City Rollergirls bout...here's a cute pic of me rolling around! There's more of me in that set...varying degrees of cuteness...

Nursing a sore knuckle today from beating up my favorite girls last night...thanks, Rossi! That was so much fun...

2007-04-02T12:11:00.000-07:00

Well, I'm off to Vegas tomorrow for a well-deserved birthday break...check out the newest issue of the Seattle Gay News for more info on the leather contest!

It's 80 degrees in Vegas...I can't wait...

2007-03-25T09:46:00.000-07:00

I did it! I'm Washington State Ms. Leather 2007, and I've got insider info that said that I scored incredibly high with the judges. It's such an honor...the last few days have been a whirlwind. I'll write more when I've got some time!

EDIT: Still don't have much time, but wanted to share a pic of the fabulous Stormy Leather dress I got to wear for SEAF...thanks to Malixe for his fab pic taking, as always!

2007-03-22T13:33:00.000-07:00

Miss Candy, Washington Sate Ms. Leather 2007? I certainly hope to be...I'll be competing this Saturday at The Cuff. I'm very excited about this opportunity...I'd love to get a little more overlap going between the kinky and the leather communities, as well as the queer and straight - I've always been one to enthusiastically straddle those fences. Come on out if you're in Seattle...most of my friends will be at Kinkfest in Portland this weekend, so my cheering section might be small. If you've ever wanted to see me kickbox, now's your chance (but I won't say more)!

My video is almost ready...the editing is coming along really well, and is being finalized now (thanks, Red!). I hope to have it up and running on my site within a couple weeks!

I attended SEAF this year in a fabulous Stormy Leather corset dress a client bought me for my birthday...as soon as I see a pic somewhere, I'll repost it here. It was a good show this year, although I personally thought that the one two years ago was better. But I was there with friends, on my partner's arm, and everything looks pretty fabulous from there.

2007-03-02T17:59:00.000-08:00

I finally shot my first video today! I'm very excited...even the footage on the tiny screen was pretty hot. Thanks to my friends at Two Big Meanies, Red and Russell, who did the video portion, and to P, who was my victim. As soon as it's edited, I'll post it on my site. Woo-hoo!

And I'm zonked. TGIF!

2007-02-19T13:50:00.000-08:00

It seems as if every time I have time to write, I'm exhausted! I guess that's because I never sit still long enough to blog, otherwise...

This Saturday there was a swinger's party hosted in part by my lover and his wife. Now, I'm not a swinger, but this was a really great party! Tons of really cute people, some hot fucking, and some rockin' kinkiness from our end. I ended up getting tied up and rolled around spread-legged with just a thong on in front of slightly shocked vanilla people. Tee-hee! Then my partner proceeded to beat up on my lover's wife, and the onlookers got steadily more shocked. Tee-hee! I love freaking people out (at least, as long as I can reassure them afterwards that all is well).

Sunday night was Bang For the Buck, a yearly event that benefits AIDS Lifecycle. It's a women-only strip contest followed by a play party, all hosted by the Wet Spot. Midori and Miss Indigo Blue were hosting, and Lady Lydia and hosts of others were volunteering their time to help it run smoothly. And my god, the women...they were there in droves. Where do they all come from? And why can't I see them more often?!? Butches, femme, young, older, shy, domineering...it was fabulous. And my sweetie Rossi and I (happy anniversary, honey!) were in the top three stripping acts! It was a lovely party, too...I got to step on, pummel, and otherwise have my way with my friend Jae, and Rossi got eight fleshooks put in her back and had them laced up like a corset. Yum! Left with several phone numbers and a dinner/strap-on date for Wednesday...

So life is still crazy, but still very good!

2007-02-16T09:47:00.000-08:00

My gracious, how busy life has become! It's all good stuff, though, so I definitely can't complain... there's just so much of it! Had a lovely time this past weekend at a party I co-host...you can read a bit about it on Mistress Matisse's blog from February 12th. While the antics she described where happening upstairs, I was downstairs getting my tired feet and calves massaged by a sweet boy wearing a hood, ball gag, and an electrified butt plug with a charming microphone feature. I alternated between twiddling the knobs on the tens unit and turning the microphone on to pick up the screams and yelps from the takedown scene happening next to us. It was very amusing.

It's a beautiful sunny day outside, and I've got a sleepover with my lover tonight...life if good! Busy, but good...

Have a good weekend, everyone!

2007-02-02T15:14:00.000-08:00

Ahhhh...what a nice day it's been! After racing around like a chicken with no head all week, today has been delightfully laidback. Made a couple boys whimper this morning, had lunch with a good friend, then came home to wonderful sex. My life, at the moment, feels calm and serene...it must have been a while since I've felt this way because I'm really enjoying it! Hope everyone else is having a happy Friday...I'll probably be attending the bondage party at the Wet Spot this Sunday, and if you haven't been, you really should check it out - the last few have been spectacular.

Enjoy the sun if you're in Seattle...we haven't seen nearly enough of it this year!

2007-01-29T19:23:00.000-08:00

I'm completely pissed and breaking into tears at odd moments...I just found out that Aradia Women's Health Center is closing. This clinic has done an incredible job for many years supporting women's reproductive rights and providing services like contraception and abortions to all womne, regardless of their ability to pay. The loss of their services will have a huge impact on women's right to choose in Seattle, and it makes me sick to my stomach.

What country do we live in again? I keep forgetting, especially since 2000...

2007-01-19T11:31:00.000-08:00

January has been crazy for me (and the rest of those in my life), hence the lack of posting. I've been getting more and more into the new martial arts that I'm learning...had a very fun wrestling session with one of my boys (thanks, W!) in which I finally got the upper hand a few times. That's an accomplishment when you consider the difference in our sizes, and my lack of experience with grappling...it was a good time. And I got to pop a play partner's golden shower cherry in a most delightful way...thanks, P, for that, and for tea this morning! It's the guys like you that keep me coming back...

Speaking of, I'm going to be making some changes to my business, so please take note: At this time I'm not accepting new clients. This isn't a forever thing, but mostly something to keep my life simpler in the short term. So if you have wanted to come see me and haven't yet, keep your shirt on...at least until I allow you to take it off. :)

Here's another pic taken by Malixe of the dress from a few posts ago...just because I really like the look on my face.

2007-01-03T11:53:00.000-08:00

The new picture gallery by Malixe is up - hooray! And there's many kinky pics of me on MM's blog at the moment, so go check 'em out! Gracious, there's a lot of me on the internet (which is funny since I'm so low-tech)...

2007-01-01T15:35:00.000-08:00

Good Lord, what a night! I can scarcely remember having so much fun at a party as I did at my friend's bash last evening! I got tied up and tortured, spent a couple hours in a cage with a very hot boy and girl, and wrapped up the evening by stepping on a very tough boy and making him bleed. Hah! I always seem to end up in that cage on New Year's...so much fun with so many good friends...

I also got to witness my dear Rossi (having shed her adorable black latex dress with white polkadots) wrestling around with our friend Jae, two girls getting tied together on bamboo tripod by Monk, Max suspending my lover C while the rest of us were lounging in Matisse's bed watching...and the food, the food was heavenly (although I'm going to have to get back at that man who made the scallops wrapped in bacon).

My dress was a hit also - it was a hand-me-down from my good friend Jane Duvall (so I don't know its origin, other than it came from NY). This is a pic of it taken by Malixe last year...

Matisse was happily snapping pictures the whole evening, so watch her blog for those, and I'll post them also if I get them!

Happy New Year, everyone, and I hope to beat up on many of you this coming year! :)

2006-12-25T22:33:00.000-08:00

Merry Xmas, everyone! I love this holiday for so many reasons, and feel so loved and desired this year...thanks to all my boys, who've made this year so lovely! I'm looking forward to a lot of fun next year. My pics will be up this week (if I were more computer-saavy I could do them myself, but I'm not, and my web guy has been hopelessly busy this season). Going to ring in the New Year with a bang at a party I always attend...I have no idea what will happen that night, but things always come clear at the last minute, and I usually end up involved to some degree in at least five scenes. We'll see what's in store!

To all a good night...

2006-12-19T14:31:00.000-08:00

The worst of the windstorm's power disturbances seem to be over, although my heart goes out to Mistress Matisse and a few other close friends who are still without electricity. I never lost power at my place, so I wasn't too affected - thanks to those who wrote emails asking if I was okay! I am doing just fine, although a little full-of-head with Xmas preparations...

The new gallery will be up by Xmas, I promise! And remember to let me know if you're sending me something through the mail...I'd hate to miss it. In terms of video, I haven't had time to set anything up - that'll have to happen in the new year!

Now, I'm off to find and acquire gifts for my most dear...

2006-12-05T15:48:00.000-08:00

There's nothing better than really good free coffee. Ahhhhhh...

Well, okay, I can think of a few things. Sex, for instance. Exercise, of course. Free chocolate...I might just die and go to heaven.

If you'd like to see me this month, let me know...my schedule is filling up fast and I'm going to be shooting some video, which will take up my already precious few work hours. I'm considering working on a Saturday or two between now and the end of the year, but only if I have to...I value my private time highly!

Get your XMas tree if you haven't already - I recommend the Grand Fir, which makes your house smell like fresh oranges...

2006-11-29T21:06:00.000-08:00

Sigh. Seattle is covered in snow and ice, and I'm getting bored. Good thing I've got some people to beat up in the next few days! That is, if I can get to the studio without breaking myself...

For all those who've asked about my video plans, never fear...they are in the works. Scheduling (and the disappearence of one of the boys I was considering) have thrown kinks (tee-hee!) into my plans. But it won't keep me down for long!

Here's another shot from the upcoming gallery by Malixe...and you don't need to tell me I'm a tease, it's old news!

2006-11-20T18:07:00.000-08:00

Hah! I just added this in "Lilac" (and a bunch of other things) to my Amazon wishlist...feel free to browse! I'm getting in the holiday spirit (and am notoriously difficult to buy for) super early this year. If you do send something, please send me an email telling me so - the package goes to my PO Box, which I don't regularly check. Have a happy turkey day everyone!

2006-11-15T23:20:00.000-08:00

At long last, the ability to upload photos! :) Getting my new computer online has been a process. Here's a teaser from the new gallery shot by Malixe (which should be up on my site soon). Thanks to the boys who did the shoot with me...you know who you are. I'm up to my elbows in boys this week, and next week is short, so if you want to see me, best be about it!

2006-11-07T11:57:00.000-08:00

Everyone better vote today or I'm going to be forced to do something drastic...like never talk to you again, much less do anything more interesting...

I'm feeling better now - thanks for all the get-well wishes! You're all so sweet...

More pics soon! Still working on getting my new computer set up...

2006-10-27T13:32:00.000-07:00

Is there anything less sexy than Florida? I'm serious...I have hardly any internet access at all, and right now I'm typing surreptitiously in my parent's hotel room. Sigh. Can't wait to get back to Seattle and get pervy again! I've got plans, plans, plans...videos to shoot, people to abuse, and several months without any plane travel. I can't wait! I'll be back just in time for Halloween...what do you think I should be?

2006-10-10T12:43:00.000-07:00

There a few things I enjoy more than playing with people and getting my picture taken. I think both appeal to the performer in me, the girl who was an avid participant in dance, drama, singing and piano most of her life. I still dabble in performance, but a good photo shoot is at least as rewarding as dancing in front of a packed house - even more so, because the photos capture the moment!

I got a chance last night to shoot with Malixe, my dear friend and the man who's taken more pictures of me than anyone on the planet. I used two of my favorite people as bottoms...both whom I'm fairly new to playing with, which made it fun and interesting. A little CBT and shoulder circles while sitting on a very nice chair built for that purpose...some pushups with my extra weight making things difficult...using one boy for a kicking and punching bag...extra encouragment for butt lifts in the form of a short skirt and my positioning over the boy's face...it was a very enjoyable evening! Thanks to Malixe, and the two boys who were game for whatever I had in mind. I don't have any pics to share as of yet, but you'll be the first to see them when I do! Hopefully I'll have a gallery of them up on my site within the month.

That being said, I'm off to Chicago to get into lots of trouble. If you want to see me next week, you should email me before I leave on Thursday...otherwise, you run the risk of not making it in!

2006-09-28T11:37:00.000-07:00

I'm sleep deprived but sat-is-fied, although I'm agog that it's not time for the weekend yet. I'm gong to be AWOL tomorrow (except for a special session...hi R!) and throughout the weekend at my annual capoeira batizado (i.e. workshops and belt testing). I plan on being flattened afterwards, although hopefully not too damaged, and attending the bondage party at the Wet Spot this Sunday evening. Those who haven't been (and who are either interested in bondage or want to meet cool peopl) should come check it out!

2006-09-20T20:21:00.000-07:00

I'm getting excited about shooting some video soon! Just some short five-minute downloadables, but they'll still be the first footage shot for me and my site. I've done lots of kinky modeling and video, but directing and starring in my own? Sounds like fun...

So I'm taking an informal poll - you can comment here or send me an email if you'd rather. What kinds of things would you like to see? I know what I'd like, but my tastes aren't the same as most of my clients, I'm betting. :) Keep in mind I'll be screening responses, and that the challenge is to make a very short video...

2006-09-13T20:12:00.000-07:00

I just took my first Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu class tonight...those of you who aren't already terrified of me soon will be! It was really great for several reasons, but especially because I've never had a ground game as a martial artist, and I'm excited to start filling in that very important chink in my armor.

In other news, I'm getting certified (hopefully) for scuba diving this weekend, beating up some great people, planning a play party and a photo shoot, and getting my apartment put together. Oh yeah, and getting a massage, going on a booty call, and organizing a women's health program.

Anyone have a few more hours they can lend me? Thanks! That being said, I do have some availiblity next week, and this Friday morning, if anyone would like to get stepped on!

2006-09-03T23:33:00.000-07:00

I am moved and nearly settled, and can now turn my attention to more important things. So what's on my list this week? Let's see...

* breaking in the new apartment by having sex and playing in as many different places as possible

* seeing several clients instead of my paltry couple squeezed in between moving commitments

* getting back into capoeira after a week and a half off...eeeek!

* taking my first scubadive cert class this weekend

* and yes...unpacking. Sigh. I wish that part would take care of itself!

I'm excited about seeing some of my favorite boys this week! I promise to put up some more pics as soon as my home computer gets set up...

2006-08-24T10:16:00.000-07:00

A scheduling note:

If you'd like some time with me between now and September 4th, you should email me today or tomorrow...I'm moving next week and I need to arrange things around that. I definitely will need people to de-stress with, so don't let it stop you from contacting me - just do it soon, or wait till the dust settles.

Now, back to packing boxes!

2006-08-22T10:17:00.000-07:00

I've had an inordinate number of people lately ask the meaning of the kanji running down my spine (you can see them on the splash page of my website). First of all, I have nine tattoos in all, each one representing some important event in my life or a philosphy I want to live by. I'll post pics of a few of them in the coming weeks and talk about what they mean.

The one down my spine is from the Tao Te Ching, chapter 45. It reads:

Understand contentment and you will suffer no disgrace.
Know when to stop and you will meet with no danger.
You can then endure.

I got it maybe five years ago at Lucky Devil, my favorite tattoo shop to recommend. It reminds me to temper my natural enthusiasm with caution...not rushing into everything headlong with little regard for my health, physical or emotional. It's been a hard lesson to learn, and I'm still learning it, but I think it's an excellent play philosophy as well!

2006-08-18T18:01:00.000-07:00

Today was one of those days...I was very happy to have two nice boys to beat up! Thanks, P, for your great energy, and for the pedestal you put me on...I like the view from up there! And thanks, R, for working so hard for me...and for cleaning up my boots afterward.

It's great to be able to de-stress by doing mean things to others! What a great job I have...

2006-08-15T19:14:00.000-07:00

Goodness, I'm feeling mean lately! Every once in a while (well, more often than that, actually) I get in a cruel mindset, and all my clients feel the brunt of it. I'm a vicious tease when I put my mind to it, and deny even the most reasonable requests.

Other times I'm downright gracious, and my sessions are filled with giggling and chatter. I suppose that's the way we all are, but in a profession like mine, my moods are more...obvious.

I'm curious which of my moods my regular clients appreciate most? I have a feeling I know the answer...

2006-08-08T17:06:00.000-07:00

My new site is up and running! It's the simplest version, and I need to add more photography, but I'm very excited. Check it out!

2006-08-04T20:21:00.000-07:00

I'm back from Vegas, and I had SUCH a fantastic time! I've never really taken a vacation before...I've always just gone to visit family (all of which live far away) and never had much money for such things. But I could get used to this! Walked around the whole time in teeny tiny clothing, lounged by the pool, saw Cirque du Soleil, recorded some homemade porn...it was a good thing. And I took today totally off (since I got in at 2am this morning) so if you've been trying to set something up with me, I promise I'll get back to you today or tomorrow! So many new boys clamoring for attention - I love it!

Tomorrow night I'm throwing a women-only party with Lady Lydia, my friend and owner of the space where I do my sessions. Can't wait to see what we all get up to! :)

2006-07-31T20:04:00.000-07:00

They say what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas...

You won't hear about a lot of what happens during my trip this week, but I promise to save some juicy tidbits!

My new site should be up next week...it's the basic version, but you'll be able to see all the photos from my most recent shoot. I'm also filming with Two Big Meanies again next Tuesday...I'm really excited about that! I was sore for weeks after the last time, which is my idea of a good playdate!

And now, for a very not-work-safe pic...have a nice week, everyone! Back on Friday...

2006-07-25T14:19:00.000-07:00

Countdown to Vegas... This time next week I'll be checking into my hotel. Whee! I love Vegas...it's so trashy. I will be gone all next week, so get in to see me this week if you can, or else it's the second week of August for you!

My new site (at least the first version) should be up by the end of July...I'll let you know when you can see it! Here's a pic taken for a shoot with Nawashibari - I should have a new spread up on that site sometime soon. Did I mention I'm a bondage model? Well, now you know...

2006-07-21T11:28:00.000-07:00

I got some new toys yesterday...some authentic military gear from one of my sweet boys. Aside from my KA-BAR (a really nifty knife), he's given me all sorts of little things. Yesterday it was some olive-drab tape (less sticky than duct tape), new laces for my boots, some incredibly sexy black zip-ties, and some olive parachute cord. My favorite was the cord...it looks very nice wound around bits! Thanks for feeding my growing military fetish (you know who you are)!

It's funny that I can be so peace-loving and have such a mean streak! I was talking to some friends last night about it, and I figured out why I love military gear so much. It's extremely utilitarian...stark, simple, no frills, and it works. It carries with it an air of menace, especially since we all know this shit is used every day in definitely not-so-sexy ways. I'm not a big fan of camoflouge clothing unless it's authentic (although I do have one matching skirt and thong in spandex...it's just too funny to irritate the utilitarian part of me!).

Here's a shot of me and a former play partner, taken by Malixe a couple years ago. The outfit is still one of my favorites!

2006-07-18T14:18:00.000-07:00

Cough cough cough...

Getting over yet another cold...these plauge me! I suppose I should get more rest - unfortunately, when confronted with sex/play or sleep, the former almost always takes precedence over the latter. I vow to go to bed early tonight!

I'm spending some time today sorting through photos for my new site...I've been lucky enough, over the last several years, to have a number of remarkably good photographers snap shots of me. I've been a bondage model for many years, but am just beginning my foray into the realm of "taking sexy pictures" just because they turn me on. I'm excited to share some of them!

I have a little too much time to myself this week, however...so if you've been wanting to get in touch with me and have been feeling too shy to act on it, now's the time! As my friend Mistress Matisse has noted in her blog, summer is a slow time for ladies in our profession. Maybe it would motivate you to know that cost of every session I do, between now and the beginning of August, will be signed over to the beautiful and very talented strippers in Vegas... :)

2006-07-13T13:16:00.000-07:00

I was lying in bed with a lover last night...we were talking after sex and before going to sleep. We were discussing trademarks and how I should "TM" my name in case it would ever come in handy. This led to a very silly (and quite mindbending) idea of Miss Candy action figures. How sweet would that be?!? She could have different outfits (mean schoolgirl, latex, army uniform) and you could buy accersories like, oh, strap-ons and different kinds of high heels. Tee-hee! And if you press the button on her back, her arm will move the flogger up and down (or the whip, or the paddle)! Tears were running out of my eyes, I was laughing so hard. Then, in talking with a client this morning, I learned it might be possible to do, and for maybe not that much money. Hmmmm...maybe I should wait until I'm rich and famous?

2006-07-07T16:02:00.000-07:00

Be afraid...be very afraid...

A very sweet boy just gave me my very own pair of SAP gloves. I've wanted a pair of these ever since I had them used on me for a shoot with my friend Lauren of Two Big Meanies. They're really thuddy and fit me perfectly...I pretty much started snarling as I was putting them on and didn't stop until I'd broken them in a little. Thanks, P, for the gift...and getting to use them on you, as well.

Tonight there's a woman's party I'm attending - I'm very much looking forward to getting a little more mileage on that soft leather!

A big shout out to my dear Rossi! We take pretty pictures together, among other things...

2006-07-03T19:34:00.000-07:00

Being sick? It sucks...but I'm on the mend. I've been outside all of the past weekend - I never noticed tan lines much, but with all the modeling I've been doing, I'm starting to notice them now! I've never been able to tan any way other than naturally...it comes from growing up in Florida, I think. Ah well...lots about me doesn't fit the femme stereotype, but I like it that way!

Happy Fourth, everyone! I've got a fun-filled week ahead of me...I'll keep you posted!

Here's another of my favorite shots from my most recent shoot (with ms. raab)...

2006-06-28T19:02:00.000-07:00

My job is so much fun...

Okay, I officially feel sorry for those whose job does not consist of doing really mean things to people while making them work out. Images from yesterday...an ex-military man at my feet polishing my tall boots. At the end of the session he was covered in sweat, bootblack, and god knows what else - well, okay, actually I know what else. And my boots look verrry pretty now! My next client was a favorite, and I had lots of fun dragging him around by his rope harness, tying up his bits, and punching him in his already sore chest. I do appreciate people who work hard for me! I think the lunges were my favorite part...

A little sniffly today, which hopefully will pass...but feeling very chipper about life right now. More on that later, but now I have a dinner date to dress up for...

Here's a pic from my archives - I'll try to post a new one each time, until I feel you darling readers are caught up on the different faces of Miss Candy!

This is for those who might like to be my kicking bag sometime...

2006-01-02T15:41:00.000-08:00

In case you were wondering...

Hello, and welcome to my blog! I’ve been super busy since I started my business last year, but things have settled enough that I can finally start writing. My website should be up and running in a few months…now that’ll be a treat! I’m hoping to have online workout tracking, fitness and kinky links, videos, photo galleries with new content all the time, a wish list, and of course a link to this blog! So stay tuned, because that’s going to be happening soon - I’m really looking forward having more contact with my clients, and with those who aren’t fortunate to live my beautiful city…

This first post will be short, but check back tomorrow…I’ll try to write every day, but my time is pretty limited (and you’ll see why as soon as I start writing about my escapades). But here’s a pic from a recent shoot with Elizabeth Raab, a wonderful local photographer…I’ll have more of her work, along with others, on my new site!

If you want to know more about my business, please refer to the sidebar – if you’re interested, just email me and we’ll talk!